Expectation is Cute, Reality is Real
by: Yalina
● March 28, 2025

Ok, so we’ve all seen those aesthetic moments, right? The ones where everything just clicks—soft light, pastel vibes, and you’re glowing like you stepped out of a dream. Total goals. But, real talk: sometimes the dream doesn’t exactly match the reality. Those effortless days you imagine? Yeah, they’re not always as chill as they seem. Sometimes the vibe is a little more chaotic, and that’s ok. It’s time to get real about what happens when expectations meet reality.

 

Dating

Expectation… 

Reality… 

 

Birthday

Expectation… 

Reality… 

 

Workout Goals

Expectation…

Reality… 

 

Pool Stuntin’

Expectation… 

Reality… 

 

Mac & Cheese

Expectation… 

Reality… 

 

Meeting the Parents

Expectation… 

Reality… 

 

Dancing

Expectation… 

Reality… 

 

Vacation

Expectation… 

Reality… 

 

Pet Training

Expectation… 

Reality… 

 

Calculating Bills

Expectation… 

Reality… 

In the end, it’s all about embracing the realness, even if it’s not all perfectly polished. The magic happens in those unplanned, messy moments—like when your bun falls out, but it somehow makes you feel even cuter. So, let go of the pressure, embrace the vibe, and just enjoy the ride. After all, that’s where the fun is… sometimes.

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ABOUT THE WRITER…

Yalina

A Barbie girl living in a Disney world where she can showcase her extravagant costumes, where extra EXTRA is never enough, where her obnoxious shower singing sounds like Beyoncé, and where she can hug random collared dogs because that most likely indicates they don’t have rabies. A hopeless romantic who binges rom-com marathons, yet despises dating and dating apps. Yalina lives, laughs, and loves on her people – her big, scattered Mexican family, and framily, who remain super close to her heart. But as an avid runner, if you can’t find her, chances are she’s running like Forrest – far, far away… from her problems… and dating.

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